>Once again Ive been proven wrong… well maybe I should start from the beginning.
Im a girl who has very few actual girl friends, Ive always been like that- I cant seem to “click” with women, for whatever reason. So I have alot of guy friends. Recently john and I have started going out alot more since we have great friends here who will actually watch the kids for us so we can get time out.. which means since Im actually being social for once. With me no longer being a stay at home mom, I decided to start inviting my guy friends out with me and John.
For the longest time I just thought John was being jealous, saying these guys are bad… saying all guys are the same.. basically that guys cant be friends with women. which, I totally fought… saying no these guys are different.. Needless to say I was WRONG.
The first guy we went out with that I thought was a friend drank one or two drinks and proceeded to tell me that my nipples could “cut glass” well, that friendship was DONE. I was wrong once again, this guy didn’t want to be friends, he obviously wanted something else.
So the other night we went with a friend, he proceeded to buy us (me) drink after drink, before I even had a chance to realize I was drunk. Next thing I know John is going to the bathroom and this guy friend of mine takes my hand and walks me to the bathroom, for you know what! Can you believe the nerve of this guy? and once again I was proven wrong!
Now I do have one guy friend, that is absolutely amazing. Very supportive, funny, everything youd ask for in a friend, guy or girl. But, thats it… every other guy that I thought was a friend or a potential friend, turned out to be a douche, and only wanting one thing.
So, please people, tell me that all guys arent like this. Give me some hope.
Now dont get me wrong, Id love to have some girl friends, though women really seem to aggrivate me to the fullest. They whine, only talk about themselves, start drama, and whine more. Men, they joke, they dont care about starting drama, and they dont whine (atleast not most lol). So since I cannot seem to stomach women enough to actually make friends (my last real woman friend I had was when I was 15!!) I stick with guy friends… in some sort of hope that their not all “bad guys”.